Widowed male with experience in the lifestyle. firstly as a single man prior to marriage. and then later with my wife. I'm just trying to make my way back into things after the devastation of losing the love of my life a few years ago. We were on P-P as a couple so I thought I'd try it here again.

When married, we just used to like to sample different things occasionally, and sometimes months - even years - went by without us doing anything outside of our own bedroom, but we went to clubs (BMFC) and met others occasionally and I miss meeting people like that and having fun.

I'm flexible on what I want; happy to meet couples looking for a genuine man with no attachments, a single lady perhaps wanting to go to a club and needing accompaniment, or a single lady - married or otherwise - looking to meet or chat online. I'm perfectly happy to take things slowly too - or even not at all as there are no expectations on my part - so if you want to meet for a coffee, chat, or a decent meal with nothing bar a nice night out then I'm up for that too (We used to meet people for a flirty evening with no end product and that was quite exciting too). Also willing to travel for the right opportunity.

I run my own business, got a dry sense of humour, I'm erudite and dress well (I'll probably wear a Hugo Boss suit or similar). If you want to know anything else about me then feel free to ask and I'm happy to chat online if you need to know more.