So here's the story, it's the short version but if we click, I mean get on, not click on some computer thingy, I'm sure we'd be happy to tell you the long version over a few drinks, perhaps over breakfast if the plan works out...
We are not experienced swingers, to be honest I don't even think we're what you'd call swingers, we've had a couple of really exciting and fun occasions with a couple we've known but have since lost touch. It was great fun and brought a great buzz to our lives and we've talked about trying to find the buzz again. With this couple only we've had MFM, FFM, MF, FF and a one soft time with a different MFM combination.
We're looking for a couple who'd be prepared to see if we make friends first, not rush into anything right away. I know we'll be thinking if we fancy bonking each other right away, but we'll need time to get to know if we like you first. I know that sounds offish but its not meant to, in fact I'm sure it's the same for you; it just that my wife needs to feel comfortable with someone/two before she can relax and start to have fun.
So this is the situation, my wife thinks that swinging sites must be full of sex crazed couples and singles who must be perverted in some way, yes I know we've done it, but apparently that wasn't swinging it was just bonking people we knew. I'm hoping that you're smiling by now and beginning to see the difficulty.

Now, I know that loads of you peeps who'll be reading this will be real swingers and find this sad, but on the other hand if you've got this far and are thinking that this story either resembles your own or you can relate to it in some way than I'd be really happy to hear from you.
I'd love to chat to an honest, good looking couple or guy from a couple with the same or similar story to see if we can hatch a plan.