We are in a stable relationship but looking for occasional fun. We are not hardened swingers, a couple of MFM's, and this would be our second time with a couple - but we are not shy. We are a very spontaneous and adventurous couple.

We are looking for a similar stable couple, of similar build, and between 30 and 50 years old. S is a new recruit to bi-fem, but does not matter if the woman is straight. S is 5ft4, size 16, 38DD with dark brown highlighted shoulder length hair with brown eyes. N is 5ft8, straight, medium build, 6.25" uncut and not-vasectomised, black hair, and brown eyes.

We are pretty open to most things, except watersports and pain. Our photo's of light bondage were for role playing, and we expect most activity to be free moving and non-dominant and non-demeaning. We will only play if we feel the chemistry is right, as pictures and online chatting is not the same as conversation over a glass of wine.

We will show up to meets and expect the same. All parties must be relaxed and consenting to same room, soft swing oral sex, or exceptionally fully swap (safe penetration) sex. Whilst oral is fine, completion to ejaculation is something we preserve for our own intimacy. S only swallows N.

We have toyed with Utopia swinging club a few times, and played once (safe sex with a couple), but mostly playing with ourselves in a friendly atmosphere. However, S has recently been put off, when a member of staff groped S unsolicited and without rebuke or apology thus far for our complaint. Socialising, chemistry and attraction are important to us.


We like to have fun. Just because we would like to swing a little, or attend naturist venues every now and then, does not mean we are hardened slappers. Please respect our few rules and we may all have a good time:- We always turn up. We always physically socialize first (even if we've web cammed). Only then do we discuss amongst ourselves if we'd like to get naked and start to play with you.

We never play alone (for safety and because we are a devoted couple who like to see each other enjoy themselves). No always means no. We always soft-swing / oral at first. Full swap cannot be assumed, and on that rare occasion will only happen if all are happy.