we are very new to all of this and so ideally seeking a single female or couple that are also first timers and or experienced but very understanding that we will be a bit nervous and fairly shy to begin with. But don't mistake that for prudishness as we have explored and experimented with all sorts of 'kinks' over the years from spanking/CP fetish and softer end of BDSM, often involving others in our sessions, though that has never led to the bedroom so to speak (YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE INTO THOSE THINGS, NOT ESSENTIAL, BUT BONUS IF YOU ARE) In recent months we have chatted about spicing up our sex life more by trying a threesome or foursome. We would like to hear from those who seek friendship aren't pushy and take things one step at a time, like for example being together but with own partners with sensual touching teasing of one another, perhaps nice sensual massage then kind of go with the flow. We know this might sound very tame to hardened experienced swingers but for us its a nice slow build up to more as things progress. We are friendly pleasant down to earth couple. Hoping there are couples out there who feel same way as us, wanting fun, wanting to spice things up but new and nervous. Wife may possibly be interested in threesome with single male, but she has a thing for long haired biker hippy types so any out there say hello.