I am looking for that One who will lead by His commands and by his voice, eyes and hands. He is the One who would cherish the gift of submission but also take full advantage of it. Being in charge when it comes to kink, helping me to explore my fantasies in a safe and sane manner over time. I am the one who understand my place, i am here seeking a man just for my desire to be taken as a sub...Not by curious excitement of what the lifestyle entails which i already know all about. I love long nights of sexy lingerie, stiletto's, a bottle of wine and exploring kinky sex with like minded Master/Dom. On the D/s side.... I have learned over the years that, D/s is not a one way street. It's not just about the Dom getting what's he needs. A healthy kink relationship is one where both get their needs met. The reason i am availing myself to ensure that my Master is Gratified and pleasured however the needs are. First i am a woman, my body, orgasms, etc are like a complex puzzle. It's a challenge to learn the subtle signals my body gives off. Could be sounds, certain muscles tensing or quivering, etc. To learn when i am just on the very edge of an orgrasm, ways to keep me on the edge. I love my orgasms being intensified, making them last longer. It makes me feel the real good sense of Domination, it's all about taking the lead, being creative within in the confines of my hard limits. I am still learning, still evolving, still growing as a Sub/slave, it makes me understand more, give more and please more. My best is in all of these, dont expect perfection, i am just looking to be owned so i can be the best of what my Master wants. If i dont make mistakes, you wont have the heart to pleasurable punish me. A perfect slave is a deceitful slave, most beautiful lies are posted here all the time.