Hi all, and thanks for looking our profile up we are not the get down to it now type of couple (ok maybe after a glass of wine! lol) we look also for the early phone call to dispel the singles and the wannabies looking for a thrill and we are looking for either exp swingers or newbies as long as you both want to go up that road.

We are a full swap couple in our forties with a much younger outlook who have been in the lifestyle, on and off for about 5 years. We don't rule out soft swinging fun. We enjoy making new friends and the friendship side is important to us, and before you ask, yes we will play on the first night if it feels right.

We like a drink or two and are non smokers but we don't mind honest if you do smoke. We are good with newbies and happy to meet them if they are genuine and both want to try full swap, we would like to emphasis the word both here, because this is very much a couples thing for us, so if all you want to do is watch your partner with another woman we won't be for you, so no wallflowers please.

We are non pushy and very relaxed and can still remember our first time, so we won't pounce on you and, we don't bite. We are not hardened and we prefer the phone to email, all emails will be answered with or without pics but what is important is to make contact we do like taking pics and videos if it is what we all want but they would not be shown to a 3rd party unless it has been approved by you both.

We give one-line replies the response they deserve - make an effort folks, we didn't scrawl this ad off in 30 seconds, we're trying to attract you - you could at least do the same :-) as this will be a 4way thing. we are open to invites to parties but prefer only a small amount of cpls and selective single guy/guys when Linda fancies surfing again for ya! but guys plz don't flood the inbox.

We're not looks-fascists but there has to be an attraction - right? If its there for us we'll send ours by return, if its not - its the dreaded 'sorry no thanx', which is at least better than the cyber-oblivion some ignorant people find amusing :-( We do suffer from the busy-life syndrome so if you're looking for an instant hit we'd probably be a disappointment - but then again who knows? that's about it for now hope to hear soon, john and Linda xx.