- Im looking for lovers single of married ladies who are bored with there husbands and wand a little spark in life my last GF and i tried so much stuff like pee play outside play ect i loved it she used to be my sublover as i say im not looking for one offs as i need to know my lover and her know me her desires her needs i am single and live on my own but cant drive as i had a stroke a few years ago it only affected my eyes mainly